![]() I’m not saying that because I’m being a victim of brainwashing but because that’s the truth. He did not buy it and that’s where we are now.Īlso the fact that I answered truthfully about my husband never acting this way before and was downvoted because of it. I explained to him that my lack of emotions came from shock and not indifference. I apologized and not because I thought I did anything wrong but because he was hurt by my lack of emotions. ![]() ![]() I don’t know why the apologizing part is being taken out of context making me out to be a weak woman with no self respect. ![]() Edit: (sorry for making my post even longer but many have requested a a clarification ) And I think this whole situation is abnormal. He thinks I’m too cold and apathetic and my reaction was abnormal so now he’s cold and apathetic towards me. It did for the few hours I believed the prank. I told him that I loved him so much and that if that was something true it would have broken me. I tried to explain that I just didn’t want to hurt our children. I tried to apologize and explain that I was hurt but shocked because that wasn’t him. Now a month later he’s still so cold and distant with me. He just yelled that he didn’t expect this. He couldn’t explain what he expected me to act. He was disappointed that I didn’t care enough. My husband was livid at the way I handled the prank. It took me a few moments to get it but then I started crying. The number belonged to his friend and he was laughing on the other line saying it was all a prank. I refused and ran to our room because I couldn’t believe how cruel he was being wanting me to call his mistress. He then shoved the IPad in my hands and asked me to call “eve”. My reaction to his infidelity wasn’t the proper reaction or at least not the one he expected. He started yelling that I was so careless and cold. I told him that I couldn’t discuss this now because I was exhausted. “Is that really all your reaction? Are you fucking serious right now?” I told him that since he has his parents living near he could move out and let me stay with the children for now until we separated. I told him that we obviously can’t stay married but that I needed to know how we’re going to do this with the least damage possible to the children. When I got home I told him that I knew about his affair and asked him how we’re going to do this. I don’t remember crying this much my entire life. He texted me multiple times if I was okay and I said that I was fine, just needed the walk. I can’t describe the amount of pain I felt and I ran to the bathroom vomiting and crying, anyway when he got back from the gym and asked me what’s wrong I just handed him the iPad and told him that he has gotten a text from Eve and that I needed to go out for a walk if he could stay with the children. Against my better judgment I started looking and there was this full conversation for over a week. We’ve been married for 2 years and we have two children together m5 and f3. While I was loading the dishwasher he got a text and a picture of naked female torso and “you miss this?”. My husband left his iPad on the counter when I was doing the dishes and went to the gym (now I think about it he went out of his way to draw my attention to the iPad the whole morning placing it on display and leaving it wherever I was now I know why). I begged him to go to therapy with me but he’s refusing any type of conversation.Ībout a month ago while having Sunday breakfast. I’m f35 and he’s m33 and I can’t believe this is really happening. If you think we’re young then think again. I don’t want a divorce over such a ridiculous thing. I didn’t react the right way to my husbands cheating prank and now our marriage is not the same. To tell the kittens apart, owners often paint their claws (which can't retract until they're about 4 weeks old) with pet-safe nail polish. Original post from /r/TrueOffM圜hest by u/LLostInDespairįun animal fact: most Siamese kittens are born completely white and develop their markings in the weeks following birth.
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